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GAY HUSBAND CHECK LIST

The most frequently asked question I receive as a counselor is this: "Is there any definite way to know if my husband is gay before or during the marriage?"

There is only one sure way--if the man is honest! Since this rarely happens, this chapter provides a list of behavior patterns that can be clear indicators in determining whether your man might be gay. Some of these behaviors include:

 

You have a normal sexual appetite, but your mate thinks you have excessive sexual 
       needs.
There is a decline of sexual activity early in your marriage.
Your husband is repulsed by normal sexual activity.
Your mate admits to having had more than two homosexual encounters.
Your husband reveals he's bisexual.
Your partner visits gay bars claiming he’s there only to hang out with his gay friend(s)
Your mate watches porno movies with gay male scenes.
Your mate makes continual homophobic comments.
Your partner’s ego appears to be boosted by compliments from gay men.