Since 1985, I have been counseling women who discover that their husbands are gay/bisexual. This was after the
collapse of my own marriage to a gay man. In this country, it is estimated that over 4 million women are
married or have been married to gay men and in almost all cases, unknowingly. Through the years I have worked
with over 30,000 women who had to come to terms with this devastating news.
When a woman learns this information, or suspects that this is the case, a wide myriad of emotions overcomes her ranging from devastation to repulsion.
My goal is to help you understand how this happens and how to cope in your life. Then I can help you make the difficult decisions that will help you move
ahead.
After a woman confirms that her husband is gay/bisexual, her first reaction includes shame, guilt, and responsibility. My first goal
is to make you believe that you are in no way responsible for your husband's homosexuality. This was
determined at birth, and in no way did you influence this. This was not your husband's choice either because homosexuality
is not a choice. In most cases, your husband married you hoping that his sexuality would change, but it
can't. However, what you decide to do about staying in this marriage is your choice, and I will help you find
the right answers.
I offer the following services:
The official gay husband checklist to help determine if your husband is gay.
Free information and literature.
Counseling for straight wives.
Free counseling for gay men who are ready to come out to their wives.
Private counseling for straight wives or couples by phone or e-mail.
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